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Monday, 8 August 2011
Graphing lols.
Following on from my last post I did a little more reading and found this picture... Highly amusing.
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Equality is Mandatory
First of all, an apology. Both for the absence in my postings (I went through a perfunctory phase of introspection and even a little gloom) and in the current course of this blog's direction. It was not my intention for it to become a place where I write essays on the current state of affairs for same-sex attracted folk in Australia. It just seems that lately, it is these issues that gets my attention sufficiently enough to form strong opinion and makes me want to share my two cents.
The topic for today: Marriage Equality.
After reading this article, exceptionally well written and poignant, I became inspired to share my views on same-sex marriage.
I do not know anyone that this currently is affecting in Australia. I do not know when/if it will ever affect me. I can, however, categorically say that should I ever chose to enter into marriage with another man and that choice be unavailable, I would fight the government with every fibre of my being.
That statement said, let me explore the issue a little. I'm 28 now, a few of my friends are married already, some are looking at taking the plunge soon. I had the overwhelming privilege of being involved in one of my best friend's weddings in the July holidays, and the weddings of my two sisters in the previous few years. Two male friends have tied their respective knots with their lovely wives, and another 3 or so close friends have found "the one" with which they want to settle. They get to do the grand wedding, or the escape to Fiji, but its their choice.
Another of my good friends, a fellow dandy camper, has been with his boyfriend (tangent: I HATE the word partner...) for several years now and they're experiencing the same heady bliss that comes with a stable long term relationship. Yet fundamentally, they don't have the same freedom to express their love for each other publicly, because our Government won't recognise their union. I am not angered by this, I am simply disappointed. I compare this to a gay couple I know living in New York City. They might not want to get married right now, but at least they can.
Time for some generalisations.
The article discusses some of the main points for anti-gay marriage proponents. I would like to expand upon some in this post:
1) Marriage is the sacred union before God of man and woman, bible blah blah. Horse shit. I attended the most sacred and beautiful pagan wedding/handfasting in the holidays. It was moving and it was recognised. Next!
2) Marriage is traditionally reserved for couples preparing for a family. Cough. Lets ignore people's right to choose whether or not they have kids. Lets ignore couples that can't have kids. Let's ignore the many different styles of family that can be found in any given street. Next!
3) Children require male and female figures in order to be healthy well adjusted individuals. Again, lets ignore the awesome jobs many single-parent families do... Not of all of them are "teen whore pregnant at 16, no father, living on crack" scenarios. To say that a kid is fucked in life because it doesn't have a mum and dad married is just plain ignorant.
Well, let me see, any valid reasons that same-sex unions shouldn't be recognised? People have asked, why is it so important? We were given de facto status we should be thankful. Again, I use the term "we" loosely here, you'll find as many apathetic GLBTIQ people as you will that are passionate for marriage. You'll even find many that don't want it because they see it as "heteronormative". To each their own, but I have an unwavering belief in and fundamental yearning for equality in all things. To be given de facto status but denied full access to marriage rights denies people so many things. It just adds to the social stigma that same-sex couples are second class and don't need to be fully accepted.
If you know someone this directly affects tell people your views. If your son, or niece or best friend's kid or those two guys down the street might one day feel the need to marry a same-sex partner we should be pushing for it! Tell your local politician of your views, sign those petitions, 'like' those Facebook groups. If you're lucky enough to not live in a seat where your federal member is a redneck and refuses to ask his constituents their views then good on you. If you are in the same situation as me, let them know. Mr Coulton, I am writing to you shortly.
I finish with a quote from the article:
This kind of silent segregation harks back to pre-civil rights movement America, as aptly put by Ellen DeGeneres, the gay American talk show host: ''Telling us we can't get married but can settle for a civil union is like a bus driver saying to a black schoolkid, 'I'll get you there if you insist, but you can sit at the back of the bus.' ''
End Rant =)
The topic for today: Marriage Equality.
(Image from here)
After reading this article, exceptionally well written and poignant, I became inspired to share my views on same-sex marriage.
I do not know anyone that this currently is affecting in Australia. I do not know when/if it will ever affect me. I can, however, categorically say that should I ever chose to enter into marriage with another man and that choice be unavailable, I would fight the government with every fibre of my being.
That statement said, let me explore the issue a little. I'm 28 now, a few of my friends are married already, some are looking at taking the plunge soon. I had the overwhelming privilege of being involved in one of my best friend's weddings in the July holidays, and the weddings of my two sisters in the previous few years. Two male friends have tied their respective knots with their lovely wives, and another 3 or so close friends have found "the one" with which they want to settle. They get to do the grand wedding, or the escape to Fiji, but its their choice.
Another of my good friends, a fellow dandy camper, has been with his boyfriend (tangent: I HATE the word partner...) for several years now and they're experiencing the same heady bliss that comes with a stable long term relationship. Yet fundamentally, they don't have the same freedom to express their love for each other publicly, because our Government won't recognise their union. I am not angered by this, I am simply disappointed. I compare this to a gay couple I know living in New York City. They might not want to get married right now, but at least they can.
Time for some generalisations.
The article discusses some of the main points for anti-gay marriage proponents. I would like to expand upon some in this post:
1) Marriage is the sacred union before God of man and woman, bible blah blah. Horse shit. I attended the most sacred and beautiful pagan wedding/handfasting in the holidays. It was moving and it was recognised. Next!
2) Marriage is traditionally reserved for couples preparing for a family. Cough. Lets ignore people's right to choose whether or not they have kids. Lets ignore couples that can't have kids. Let's ignore the many different styles of family that can be found in any given street. Next!
3) Children require male and female figures in order to be healthy well adjusted individuals. Again, lets ignore the awesome jobs many single-parent families do... Not of all of them are "teen whore pregnant at 16, no father, living on crack" scenarios. To say that a kid is fucked in life because it doesn't have a mum and dad married is just plain ignorant.
Well, let me see, any valid reasons that same-sex unions shouldn't be recognised? People have asked, why is it so important? We were given de facto status we should be thankful. Again, I use the term "we" loosely here, you'll find as many apathetic GLBTIQ people as you will that are passionate for marriage. You'll even find many that don't want it because they see it as "heteronormative". To each their own, but I have an unwavering belief in and fundamental yearning for equality in all things. To be given de facto status but denied full access to marriage rights denies people so many things. It just adds to the social stigma that same-sex couples are second class and don't need to be fully accepted.
If you know someone this directly affects tell people your views. If your son, or niece or best friend's kid or those two guys down the street might one day feel the need to marry a same-sex partner we should be pushing for it! Tell your local politician of your views, sign those petitions, 'like' those Facebook groups. If you're lucky enough to not live in a seat where your federal member is a redneck and refuses to ask his constituents their views then good on you. If you are in the same situation as me, let them know. Mr Coulton, I am writing to you shortly.
I finish with a quote from the article:
This kind of silent segregation harks back to pre-civil rights movement America, as aptly put by Ellen DeGeneres, the gay American talk show host: ''Telling us we can't get married but can settle for a civil union is like a bus driver saying to a black schoolkid, 'I'll get you there if you insist, but you can sit at the back of the bus.' ''
End Rant =)
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Wednesday, 3 August 2011
The word of the day is Depleted.
So, it has been a few days since my last post. I do apologise. I really want to say horrible things about Fred Nile and the whole Ethics class thing, but I can't be bothered... I managed to stave off full-blown flu, but I still have the fatigue, the sniffles and the misery. Yesterday was a blast, but it was a long day. Here is the itinerary:
05.00 Wake up
06.00 Depart School, drive to Dubbo
07.30 Check-in
08.00 Fly to Sydney
09.00 Land in Sydney, catch a cab
10.30 Arrive Bicentennial Park
11.00 Awards ceremony
13.00 Walk around Olympic Park/Showground
14.00 Rivercat to Circular Quay
15.00 Walk around doing the tourist thing... Opera House, Bridge etc
16.00 Train to Airport
16.30 Check-in
17.00 Fly to Dubbo
18.00 Land in Dubbo, drive back to Mendooran
19.15 Arrive home
So yeah... Long.
I was exhausted this morning, but had to go to school for our Education day open day. I spoke on assembly about our award, we presented it, blah blah, had to stop myself from having a good old cough on stage from my crappy voice lately. Went to a lot of trouble to make my classroom presentable and have a great lesson running while it was "open classrooms" and no one came. One of the kids gave me attitude and refused to work, follow instructions, etc and gave me shit to big note himself in front of his mates, so I got him punished accordingly. And then I was just plain loathsome come home time and now I'm just resoundingly neutral.
Physically depleted.
Emotionally depleted.
Psychologically depleted.
Just plain ol' fucking depleted.
End Rant =|
05.00 Wake up
06.00 Depart School, drive to Dubbo
07.30 Check-in
08.00 Fly to Sydney
09.00 Land in Sydney, catch a cab
10.30 Arrive Bicentennial Park
11.00 Awards ceremony
13.00 Walk around Olympic Park/Showground
14.00 Rivercat to Circular Quay
15.00 Walk around doing the tourist thing... Opera House, Bridge etc
16.00 Train to Airport
16.30 Check-in
17.00 Fly to Dubbo
18.00 Land in Dubbo, drive back to Mendooran
19.15 Arrive home
So yeah... Long.
I was exhausted this morning, but had to go to school for our Education day open day. I spoke on assembly about our award, we presented it, blah blah, had to stop myself from having a good old cough on stage from my crappy voice lately. Went to a lot of trouble to make my classroom presentable and have a great lesson running while it was "open classrooms" and no one came. One of the kids gave me attitude and refused to work, follow instructions, etc and gave me shit to big note himself in front of his mates, so I got him punished accordingly. And then I was just plain loathsome come home time and now I'm just resoundingly neutral.
Physically depleted.
Emotionally depleted.
Psychologically depleted.
Just plain ol' fucking depleted.
End Rant =|
Saturday, 30 July 2011
On 'playing gay' in a 'straight world'.
No, this isn't a post about me pretending to be something I'm not. The story of my life in the closet is far too broad (i.e. novel) to put in one post, perhaps piece by piece over time, it will be easier to swallow. Ergh, bad choice of words right there...
Anywho, trolling Samesame I came across this story:
An interesting read about things very current in my life:
The current state of queer policy in schools
Regional schooling and homophobia
Putting on kick-ass productions with gay characters involved.
Recently, Mendooran Central has decided that we are going to stage a production of "Two weeks with the Queen" in which one of the sub-plots involves a gay couple, one man suffering AIDS and the other watching him die. The storyline is both beautiful and topical. It calls upon the audience to appreciate a gay coupling as a normal and respectable thing. One man deeply in love with another. They are made to examine homophobia and social abandonment, the stigma of the disease and the trauma of loss. Very relatable, yes?
When it came to casting, the other teachers involved and I asked ourselves, would our kids be up to this role? On paper, it was powerful and moving, but in reality it would be very difficult for a teenage boy to play.
Our little community has three gay people in it, as far as I know. Myself, and a couple living out on a property, and by all accounts they are a very happy, stable couple. With such a small demographic, its no surprise that most of the kids at my school had never met an actual gay person before meeting me. Again, it is not surprising that when approached, the kids we thought would be up to it politely refused. Yet, to his credit, one student had the bravery to accept one of the roles and kudos to him, he will deserve every accolade that will come his way.
We had one gay down, now we needed another. Sadly, we couldn't get another. So we adapted the play, which is something mentioned in the article. We dropped the sick partner (he was only in two scenes after all), but we're still exploring that storyline to it's full extent, just with exposition (in the form of phone calls, writing letters) by the others characters that would have been involved. Non confrontational, but just as powerful. Leeton High dropped the Kurt character due to student disinterest in the role, and that's fine in my opinion. It is a big ask for a teenage boy to risk ridicule or questions about his own sexuality by playing a gay character. Why I ask? What is so bad?
As adults, we, well most of us, know that there is nothing wrong with being gay, lesbian, transgendered etc. etc. Teenagers however, they are full of stress and hormones and pressure and angst, they are generally so desperate to conform that the thought of being different utterly terrifies them.
The article discusses the lack of policy and structure for GLBTIQ students in rural schools, and that Leeton High doesn't have one. I can safely say that neither do we at Mendooran. Does this mean that we aren't supporting our kids any less? I don't think so. I'd like to think that by being a positive role model to any students "asking those questions" that they could come to me and I could either have a chat or refer them to where they could find more information. I don't know if any of our kids are gay or questioning, I have those I suspect of course, interestingly this boy was not one of them. Maybe there are kids out in the country for whom sexuality isn't an issue, I'm excited by that.
Now, what was the point of this post? Hmmm, damn you tangent Gods... Oh yes! Give the article a browse, it is very interesting. Being out in the country (pun intended) for 4 years now has afforded me a decent perspective on the state of education and queer issues out here, perhaps I am losing perspective on what is happening back in the Metro? More research is needed!
End Rant =)
Our little community has three gay people in it, as far as I know. Myself, and a couple living out on a property, and by all accounts they are a very happy, stable couple. With such a small demographic, its no surprise that most of the kids at my school had never met an actual gay person before meeting me. Again, it is not surprising that when approached, the kids we thought would be up to it politely refused. Yet, to his credit, one student had the bravery to accept one of the roles and kudos to him, he will deserve every accolade that will come his way.
We had one gay down, now we needed another. Sadly, we couldn't get another. So we adapted the play, which is something mentioned in the article. We dropped the sick partner (he was only in two scenes after all), but we're still exploring that storyline to it's full extent, just with exposition (in the form of phone calls, writing letters) by the others characters that would have been involved. Non confrontational, but just as powerful. Leeton High dropped the Kurt character due to student disinterest in the role, and that's fine in my opinion. It is a big ask for a teenage boy to risk ridicule or questions about his own sexuality by playing a gay character. Why I ask? What is so bad?
As adults, we, well most of us, know that there is nothing wrong with being gay, lesbian, transgendered etc. etc. Teenagers however, they are full of stress and hormones and pressure and angst, they are generally so desperate to conform that the thought of being different utterly terrifies them.
The article discusses the lack of policy and structure for GLBTIQ students in rural schools, and that Leeton High doesn't have one. I can safely say that neither do we at Mendooran. Does this mean that we aren't supporting our kids any less? I don't think so. I'd like to think that by being a positive role model to any students "asking those questions" that they could come to me and I could either have a chat or refer them to where they could find more information. I don't know if any of our kids are gay or questioning, I have those I suspect of course, interestingly this boy was not one of them. Maybe there are kids out in the country for whom sexuality isn't an issue, I'm excited by that.
Now, what was the point of this post? Hmmm, damn you tangent Gods... Oh yes! Give the article a browse, it is very interesting. Being out in the country (pun intended) for 4 years now has afforded me a decent perspective on the state of education and queer issues out here, perhaps I am losing perspective on what is happening back in the Metro? More research is needed!
End Rant =)
I couldn't resist sharing this...
Trying to work, I falter and get on Facebook, engaging in an entertaining conversation with a lovely lady. This was her profile picture, just had to share it:
The word of the day is Focus.
Short one today. There is just something about the reality of thinking "oh shit, this assignment must be submitted tomorrow" that just gets all academic cannons firing.
I FUCKING LOVE REPORT WRITING!! RARRRGH!! (''\(;,,;)/'')
I FUCKING LOVE REPORT WRITING!! RARRRGH!! (''\(;,,;)/'')
Art I love, Part One.
Today's piece of culture is "The Artist's Garden at Giverny" - Claude Monet (1900)
Bask in it. Just simply bask. Stare at it open-mouthed and let your eyes drink in the colour. Now, I know Impressionism isn't for everyone, but this is one painting that literally makes me stop, stare and smile stupidly every time I look at it. The vibrancy of colour, the brushstrokes, the composition. All of it just sings with harmony.
Monet was a genius and one of the world's prominent painters, but most people only know him for water lilies. Not taking anything away from those, he was an avid gardener and tended his home in Giverny with care and skill. He planted his flowers according to hue and variety, making it a living work of art. It remains today, tended by his faithful, and I for one cannot wait to travel to France and spend a day there, basking, walking through a painting...
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I love a good rant, but discussions are better... Talk back to me people! Thank you Susannah <3
I love a good rant, but discussions are better... Talk back to me people! Thank you Susannah <3
Friday, 29 July 2011
The word of the day is Procrastinate.
So, I've had a psych assignment for two weeks now and its due Monday. Nothing too dramatic, just "read article X and evaluate it" blah blah. Granted I'm a busy person and most nights I've got schoolwork or other web-based activities to occupy my time, but it seems impossible to get out of 'work mode' and into 'academic mode' during the week. Enter the weekend.
Oh weekends, I remember when they were two days of pure, unadulterated freedom, aside from the occasional weekend hospital shift. And night times, leaving work at work at having time to myself.. I reminisce on those days with such fondness. Now, I'm not complaining, I love my job, I am devoted to my kids and I'm glad to put in the effort. But when it gets to weekends and then I need to switch to academic mode I'm finding that its just not working.
I miss full time study. Go to class, do your work, go home. Working at home? Eeeeeew. Wow, I think this whole post has been one long tangent. I feel an almost supernatural aversion to doing this assignment, it really is uncanny. It will be easy, its only 1000 words and its only an evaluation of a report, of which I've written a shit load over the years. I think that's why I'm procrastinating! Complacency! That's it, the nail has been thoroughly smacked on the head.
My name is Brendon Bearman and I have grown complacent =)
Oh weekends, I remember when they were two days of pure, unadulterated freedom, aside from the occasional weekend hospital shift. And night times, leaving work at work at having time to myself.. I reminisce on those days with such fondness. Now, I'm not complaining, I love my job, I am devoted to my kids and I'm glad to put in the effort. But when it gets to weekends and then I need to switch to academic mode I'm finding that its just not working.
I miss full time study. Go to class, do your work, go home. Working at home? Eeeeeew. Wow, I think this whole post has been one long tangent. I feel an almost supernatural aversion to doing this assignment, it really is uncanny. It will be easy, its only 1000 words and its only an evaluation of a report, of which I've written a shit load over the years. I think that's why I'm procrastinating! Complacency! That's it, the nail has been thoroughly smacked on the head.
My name is Brendon Bearman and I have grown complacent =)
Thursday, 28 July 2011
The word of the day is Controversy.
I love it, less than 24 hours old and I've angered someone with my commentary on this blog. I'm not happy that I've angered someone, I am not a troll. I am happy that someone has read my thoughts, counteracted with theirs and made me think more. Bravo blogosphere, bravo =)
Southern Cross tattoos... The new swastika?
Yes I am blogging at school.. Shhhh. This is related to something that happened at school and it provoked a need to blog, I promise!
This morning a young chap in one of the senior grades mentioned to me he was going to get a tattoo at the earliest convenience, a southern cross tattoo.. I immediately pulled this face: -_- When I queried as to why he was thinking about getting this particular logo pumped into his freshly traumatised flesh he simply said "I'm Aussie and proud of it". Honest enough of an answer, but of course I had to over analyse... Me? Over analyse? No way! I had to wonder if he understood the meaning of the Southern Cross, and the social stigma around wearing a southern cross tattoo...
I then went into research mode, Southern Cross tattoos are not a new thing, by any means. They have been permanently affixed to many Australians as a national identifier, including many brave servicemen and women over the years. Only recently have they become a way of branding ignorant people. Now, I know I am going to offend many with my wanton generalisations here, but its my blog, so ner...
The top 5 most popular tattoos for Australians are:
1. Tribal decal
2. Kids names/Dead relatives names
3. Miscellaneous Asian character/symbol
4. Southern Cross
5. Butterfly/Flower/Tramp stamp
Is it really surprising that further breaking down this demographic, southern cross tattoos feature prominently in the 18-29 male grouping? A friend on Facebook recently liked a group that made me chuckle. You can find the the link here, but basically it is called "Thanks to Southern Cross tattoos I can spot a dickhead form a distance". Matt Thornton, I love you.
When did an astronomical configuration turn from an important national identifier to a symbol of white pride? The Cronulla Riots certainly come to mind, but was that the instigator or merely a nice big public display of this new ultra-nationalism? Now I'm not saying that Australians shouldn't be proud of their country, I dig pride. I do disagree with it being used to symbolise ignorant "we were here first" attitudes. Now, unless you're of Aboriginal Or Torres Strait Islander heritage you're English, Irish, Norman French, Germanic etc. You are not indigenous, you were not here first. The yobbos rallying around this symbol as a means of asserting their supremacy are no better than the KKK.
End Rant =)
This morning a young chap in one of the senior grades mentioned to me he was going to get a tattoo at the earliest convenience, a southern cross tattoo.. I immediately pulled this face: -_- When I queried as to why he was thinking about getting this particular logo pumped into his freshly traumatised flesh he simply said "I'm Aussie and proud of it". Honest enough of an answer, but of course I had to over analyse... Me? Over analyse? No way! I had to wonder if he understood the meaning of the Southern Cross, and the social stigma around wearing a southern cross tattoo...
I then went into research mode, Southern Cross tattoos are not a new thing, by any means. They have been permanently affixed to many Australians as a national identifier, including many brave servicemen and women over the years. Only recently have they become a way of branding ignorant people. Now, I know I am going to offend many with my wanton generalisations here, but its my blog, so ner...
The top 5 most popular tattoos for Australians are:
1. Tribal decal
2. Kids names/Dead relatives names
3. Miscellaneous Asian character/symbol
4. Southern Cross
5. Butterfly/Flower/Tramp stamp
Is it really surprising that further breaking down this demographic, southern cross tattoos feature prominently in the 18-29 male grouping? A friend on Facebook recently liked a group that made me chuckle. You can find the the link here, but basically it is called "Thanks to Southern Cross tattoos I can spot a dickhead form a distance". Matt Thornton, I love you.
When did an astronomical configuration turn from an important national identifier to a symbol of white pride? The Cronulla Riots certainly come to mind, but was that the instigator or merely a nice big public display of this new ultra-nationalism? Now I'm not saying that Australians shouldn't be proud of their country, I dig pride. I do disagree with it being used to symbolise ignorant "we were here first" attitudes. Now, unless you're of Aboriginal Or Torres Strait Islander heritage you're English, Irish, Norman French, Germanic etc. You are not indigenous, you were not here first. The yobbos rallying around this symbol as a means of asserting their supremacy are no better than the KKK.
End Rant =)
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Lady Gaga or Gaygay?
So I awoke this morning with two things on my mind:
1) Which Disney song would win out of a competition between "Part of your world" from The little mermaid, or, "A whole new world: from Aladdin. I think I will create a poll for this one and let public debate sort it out. Oh! amusing typo, I actually wrote pubic, thankfully I wasn't in class and putting that on the whiteboard.. DISCLAIMER: I have never done that before, ever.. (shifty eyes)
2) Recently, on my last trip back home, a friend was in my car and "Born this way" by Lady Gaga came upon the radio. This sparked an instant good mood from me, as a) I love Lady Gaga, and b) this song has immense personal relevance to me and the other members of the GLBTIQ community (tangent: can that acronym possibly get any longer???). In my friend however, it elicited derision and snide comments about how she was "pandering to the gays".
First of all, while it can be stated that the "pink dollar" is indeed powerful, I would like to point out that "Born this way" the album is her most recent release of which she has had several. People say that she is preying on the gay community in order to boost her popularity in younger demographics and that she is only championing our causes (e.g. Marriage equality, the repeal of DADT in the US, teen suicide etc) to get us on side.
Well, WHY THE FUCK NOT? Every cause throughout human history has had its champion. Abe Lincoln signed the emancipation proclamation to end slavery, but it was Malcolm X and Dr King that really urged black people to fight for their rights and to make others really examine the issues. Germaine Greer was a key player in the feminism movement, causing the world to take another look at the roles women play in society. Now, in most parts of the world, the colour of your skin, or your lady parts, do not mean that you are afforded any less in life. These movements arose in a time of need to make life better for their constituents and required a public figure to bring it to the attention of the world. Lady Gaga is our Malcolm X. I know this a bold statement but as an educator I can see in the kids I interact with daily that by spreading the word that we gays are not all queeny, AIDS-ridden paedophiles, she is making the world a better place for us. Do we love her for it? Yes. Do we then go on to support her for it? Of course, we should reciprocate the love. Does she make money from it? Yes, but then she puts it back in worthwhile causes.
In summation, Lady Gaygay might be pandering to us recently, but I think this is a good thing. I have successfully stamped out using the word "gay" as an adjective for something bad from the vocabulary of the kids at my school, through educating them about what the word actually means. Lady Gaga has educated MASSES of people through her songs and powerful public presence, asking them to reexamine their views on topical issues relating to homosexuals. I say go for it Gaga, get me my husband!
End Rant =)
1) Which Disney song would win out of a competition between "Part of your world" from The little mermaid, or, "A whole new world: from Aladdin. I think I will create a poll for this one and let public debate sort it out. Oh! amusing typo, I actually wrote pubic, thankfully I wasn't in class and putting that on the whiteboard.. DISCLAIMER: I have never done that before, ever.. (shifty eyes)
2) Recently, on my last trip back home, a friend was in my car and "Born this way" by Lady Gaga came upon the radio. This sparked an instant good mood from me, as a) I love Lady Gaga, and b) this song has immense personal relevance to me and the other members of the GLBTIQ community (tangent: can that acronym possibly get any longer???). In my friend however, it elicited derision and snide comments about how she was "pandering to the gays".
First of all, while it can be stated that the "pink dollar" is indeed powerful, I would like to point out that "Born this way" the album is her most recent release of which she has had several. People say that she is preying on the gay community in order to boost her popularity in younger demographics and that she is only championing our causes (e.g. Marriage equality, the repeal of DADT in the US, teen suicide etc) to get us on side.
Well, WHY THE FUCK NOT? Every cause throughout human history has had its champion. Abe Lincoln signed the emancipation proclamation to end slavery, but it was Malcolm X and Dr King that really urged black people to fight for their rights and to make others really examine the issues. Germaine Greer was a key player in the feminism movement, causing the world to take another look at the roles women play in society. Now, in most parts of the world, the colour of your skin, or your lady parts, do not mean that you are afforded any less in life. These movements arose in a time of need to make life better for their constituents and required a public figure to bring it to the attention of the world. Lady Gaga is our Malcolm X. I know this a bold statement but as an educator I can see in the kids I interact with daily that by spreading the word that we gays are not all queeny, AIDS-ridden paedophiles, she is making the world a better place for us. Do we love her for it? Yes. Do we then go on to support her for it? Of course, we should reciprocate the love. Does she make money from it? Yes, but then she puts it back in worthwhile causes.
In summation, Lady Gaygay might be pandering to us recently, but I think this is a good thing. I have successfully stamped out using the word "gay" as an adjective for something bad from the vocabulary of the kids at my school, through educating them about what the word actually means. Lady Gaga has educated MASSES of people through her songs and powerful public presence, asking them to reexamine their views on topical issues relating to homosexuals. I say go for it Gaga, get me my husband!
End Rant =)
(Image from http://flagspot.net/flags/au_gay.html)
It gets better... But can we do better?
Kek.
"Look at it this way. Coming out is different for everybody, and I don’t wish to belittle anyone’s pain. But the fact remains that if I hear one more privileged, middle class, blonde, Colgate smiled, Aussiebum tanned, hard-bodied, perfectly hairless, skinny white boy, telling me‘It’s just so haaaaaaard!’, I may slap the bitch."
Hate this song... but!
Want to learn sign language. Sense of hearing be damned if you get to look at this guy =)
Birthday pressie ZOMG
Well my blog buddies, I was on the way to dreamy-dream land and my sister Skyped me "check your email!!" Noting the tone of urgency it overcame the grump factor and the looks of longing I was giving my bed. I really do love my bed, perhaps that is something to blog about later. OOH! TANGENT NUMBER ONE!
Anywho, I checked the email and literally squealed as I saw this:
Anywho, I checked the email and literally squealed as I saw this:
Love ya Lozzie, be prepared for me to get my Turnblad on...
And so it begins...
Well. You've decided you want an insight into my mind. Are you sure about that?
Go on, leave. It will be better for your mental health, trust me.
Still interested? Well, You can't say you weren't warned...
Some friends of mine write beautiful, satirical and truly epic blogs. I will attempt to shamelessly copy them. Wait, no, that would be boring. Instead I think I will just link brain to hands and blurt, I am good at that!
So lets see, why have I made this blog, you ask? Simply put, I live alone, all alone, and Facebook and I are becoming "complicated" in our relationship status. As a person with a keen intellect and something to say about nearly everything, blogging was a logical, web 2.0 progression. I'm going to attempt to post at least once daily as a planned thing, and as my thoughts spiral off on their crazy rainbow tangents I will endeavour to blog those as well.
Lastly, I welcome comments, but if you post hate, flames or old fashion trolling, those comments will be deleted =) And on that note, an amusing picture!
Go on, leave. It will be better for your mental health, trust me.
Still interested? Well, You can't say you weren't warned...
Some friends of mine write beautiful, satirical and truly epic blogs. I will attempt to shamelessly copy them. Wait, no, that would be boring. Instead I think I will just link brain to hands and blurt, I am good at that!
So lets see, why have I made this blog, you ask? Simply put, I live alone, all alone, and Facebook and I are becoming "complicated" in our relationship status. As a person with a keen intellect and something to say about nearly everything, blogging was a logical, web 2.0 progression. I'm going to attempt to post at least once daily as a planned thing, and as my thoughts spiral off on their crazy rainbow tangents I will endeavour to blog those as well.
Lastly, I welcome comments, but if you post hate, flames or old fashion trolling, those comments will be deleted =) And on that note, an amusing picture!
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